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Let’s set the scene. You’re sitting on the
sofa with your cat in your lap. As you watch
TV, you affectionately pet him. He seems
content and relaxed, when all of a sudden he
whips around and sinks his teeth into your
hand. Ouch! What happened?
The behavior is referred to as
petting-induced aggression. Why did your
loving cat suddenly turn into a snapping
turtle, and what can you do about it?
It can be due to more than one cause. For
some cats, continual stroking crosses from
pleasure to over-stimulation. For other
cats, it could be that he started to doze
off and the touch of your hand startled him,
and he reacted.
Although it may seem as if your cat bit you
right out of the blue, he probably did offer
warning signs. Cats often signal they’ve had
enough physical contact. The problem is that
while you’re petting him, your focus is
either on something else or you didn’t
understand the signals.
Some signs that your cat may be reaching the
end of his tolerance may include: skin
twitching, tail lashing, cessation of
purring, change in ear position, shift in
body position, hissing, meowing, growling,
and tensing of muscles.
How can you correct the problem? Pay
attention to your cat’s signals, and become
familiar with his tolerance time-frame. If
you know from past experience that your cat
tends to bite after five minutes, stop
petting him at two-and-a-half minutes. Cut
the time in half to leave him relaxed. Once
you stop petting, you may find his body
relaxes again.
In follow-up petting sessions, you may be
able to gradually increase your
two-and-a-half minute time-frame a few
seconds at a time, and then eventually work
up to three minutes. Always stop before you
think you really need to.
This simple exercise, if done correctly, may
help you and your cat once again enjoy those
times of affection. Keep in mind though that
some cats simply will never have a tolerance
for anything more than a few seconds of
petting.
For specific information on this topic,
refer to the books
Starting from Scratch
or
Think Like a
Cat.
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